Happy Vaisaki and Happy Tamil New Year!!!

im celebrating both by the way...*winkz*...so its a double happiness for me...hehehe...but since im away from home, my only means of celebration was the movies and also dinner in Pizza Hut...yummy...hehe...enjoyed anyhow... :oD

sum words

some words that i kinda like....makes me think of some things in life that we often fail to understand and take for granted....

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Each of us sooner or later realizes that our relationships with others require giving of ourselves -- not only of our time, but our sincere and caring involvement as well. Too often we close the book on the many who need us by allotting just so much of ourselves, and end by being miserly with what should be the easiest and least expensive thing to give ----ourselves.

-Dr. Leo Buscaglia-

Commitment is what transforms a promise into reality.
Commitment is making the time when there is none.
Coming through time after time.
No involvement ... no commitment.

-Unknown-

Happiness comes when your work and words are of benefit to yourself and
others.

-Unknown-

The bottom line is that you are in charge of your tiny portion of the world,
which includes your family and friends. Don't let unhappy memories, pride,
busy schedules, or too much focus on your own goals get in the way of one of
the most joyful aspects of being alive--loving and being loved.
Ultimately, nothing else will matter if you don't have this.

-Unknown-

Find the person who will love you because of your differences and not in
spite of them and you have found a lover for life.

-Leo Buscaglia-

It is the things in common that make relationships enjoyable, but it is the little differences that make them interesting.

-Todd Ruthman-

There are three kinds of love, - unselfish, mutual, and selfish. The unselfish love is of the highest kind. The lover only minds the welfare of the beloved and does not care for his own sufferings. In mutual love the lover not only wants the happiness of his beloved but has an eye towards his own happiness also. It is middling. The selfish love is the lowest. It only looks towards its own happiness, no matter whether the beloved suffers weal or woe.

-Sri Ramakrishna-

Relationships of all kinds are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold on to some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.

-Chicken Soup for the Soul-