Friendship...Blessing??Curse??

hello peeps....

well, first things first.... "Happy Friendship Day" to all the friends out there....hehe....i swear i did not know anything about today being friendship day....deepu told me bout it this morning....that was when i realised....hehe...anyways, i would like to wish this to all my friends out there....hope our friendship remains ever lasting....but then again, if any of you out there thinks otherwise.... then hope your wish will come true....hehe....it could be the best for both of us rite.... *wink*

friends....hmmm....what are friends actually?? well, in my opinion, from my very own experiences....friends can be a blessing or even a curse in one's life....it just depends on what kind of friends you get....i have known friends that would give up the world for me....but i also have come across friends that aims to take away the world from me....sounds familiar?? well ofcourse...im sure you have had your own fair share of experiences as well....let's all take a closer look at this special person called "friend" that can either make you or break you....

i believe no true friend would do anything to harm another person they call friend....just think about it....if you actually care about someone for real....would you actually do anything to hurt that persons feelings?? if it was me who was being questioned, my obvious answer would be no for sure....i have always tried to make sure all the people around me is happy and always cheerful....and thanks to my efforts, i have earned the title of being the FM radio among my friends....hehe....thanks loads guys....just hope my efforts did somehow cheer you all up and not anything else.... *wink*

over the 21 years of my existance, i have encountered loads of different people with different characteristics....some of which i am proud to call friends and some that i am ashamed....i truely detest people who use "friendship" as a means for their own personal gain....i mean how selfish can one get?? but sadly, these kind of "friends" are the most around....personal experiences are countless....they are all around....if they need you...you are their 'bestest' friend....and when they are done with you....they dont even wanna know you....sad?? yeah it is....hurts most of the time....especially when they go around spoiling your name after that....spreading rumours and talking shit....it makes you think were there any friendship involved at all....but these idiots dont really deserve the time and feelings spent on them....all they deserve is a hard kick up their asses and a life alone with no one to rely on for the rest of their lives....so if this has happened to you....just smile and live on with your life....what goes around comes around....they will get back for their deeds....

then there is also the minor cases out there....the kind that always has a favour to ask from you....
"can you please do this for me??"
"can you take that for me??"
"can i borrow this??"
"can i borrow that??"
too many favours...too many request....hehe....yeah its not wrong to ask for favours from friends....neither is it wrong to help friends out....however, many have misused this comfort and have treated friends more like servants or delivery people....i have seen friends being used like this a million times....sadly there is nothing i could do about it for i was afraid to hurt or anger the parties involved....i wonder how they never realised this was happening....but then again, neither did i when it happened to me....like a few times....hehe....you know whats the funniest part....we always tend to blame ourselves when things like this happen....guess we all trust and adore our friends so much that we actually get blinded by the selfish things and mistakes they do and always think its our fault....sad but true....hehe....

sadly, i guess that is all a part of life's cycle....we need to meet individuals with such character so we learn to build our own characters....it also makes us appreciate the good set of people we have in our lives....the kind that deserves being called friends....though these kind of people are hard to find....but it is not impossible....we just have to look a little harder than we usually do....i am happy to claim that i do have a small set of friends that i appreciate and can call my friends....when i dont mind sending my other so-called-friends direct to the recycle bin even right now, they are the people i would never want to erase from my life....they have been there for me when i needed them the most....and they have managed to bring some joy in my life for all these years....it is these kind of individuals that deserve to celebrate this day....for they are the true friend in friendship....

To have a good friend....
You need to be one too....
So be nice to each other....
And will be friends forever....
And that is how you be....
The best friend you can ever be.....

i think we all can learn a thing or two from that poem....hehe....just as a dessert to finish off this blog entry....hehe....so is friendship a blessing or a curse?? its a blessing no matter what...because which ever experience....good or bad...will always teach us something about life....and that would make us a better and stronger person....agreed??....okies then....i guess i will be signing off now....so till my fingers find a keyboard to start crapping again....Happy Friendship Day again peeps....ciaozZz